Showing posts with label refund check. Show all posts
Showing posts with label refund check. Show all posts

Thursday, December 12, 2013

Becoming Weird

I grew up listening to talk radio and perfecting the art of tuning it out.  Some days I would actually try to follow along to Rush or Hugh in an attempt to have an "intellectual" conversation with my dad in the car.  Other days I would entertain myself with my own thoughts, only tuning in to the radio when they played bumper music.  This trend followed me into adulthood and one day I asked Albert what we were listening to. Dave Ramsey.   My life was forever changed. From that moment on I have listened intently to talk Radio.  Let's face it, I am addicted to Dave. 


We are passionate people.  When we believe in something we don't just dip our big toe in the water, we jump in.  So, we started working Dave's plan full force.  We took the class, we taught the class.  We always find a way to bring up "Uncle Dave" in conversation.  We obtained several copies of his books to give away as gifts when anyone shows the slightest bit of interest.  You have to be careful when asking us about Dave.  It's like when you ask your dad how to change the oil and he teaches you how to rebuild the engine.  We eat, sleep and breathe Dave.

Starting the baby steps was easy for us.  We already had more than the emergency fund in our bank account, so we set that aside and got to work.  Our first credit card had a balance of $0 so we were able to feel accomplished immediately from closing that account.  We had very little to go towards our debt snowball, but several of our debts were small and we were able to close 12 of them in the first 5 months.  Freeing up those minimum payments gave us a large enough snowball to start hurling at our other debts. 

Today we have only two debts.  We have zero credit cards.  We have two paid for cars.  We budget every penny, every month, together.  We love being weird!

Wednesday, December 11, 2013

We Used To Be Normal

For me, it started with a cell phone.  You have to build credit to have a cell phone or anything else of value, right?  So I got a dell credit card because they will give anyone a credit card.  I needed a lap top anyway!  Bank of America also generously gave me a nice little student credit card so I could buy my school books until my refund check came in.  A refund check seemed like such a glorious thing!! It was extra money to live off of while going to college.  Of course I knew I had to pay all of this back.  I was not ignorant... or was I?
You can't go to college without student loans and you certainly can't buy a car without a car loan. But I could afford the payments, I never worked less than three jobs while being a full time college student. Grad school was also a must.  I had to get my masters degree so that I could earn a higher paycheck. So, here I am age 24.  I have a wonderful job and I am temporarily living with my parents while my sister and I hunt for a house.  I think I'm doing great.  In the background I have three massive student loans, a truck loan and 4 credit cards (which I don't carry a balance on).  This is normal.  
Then I meet Albert and six months later we are married and now we have a total of 26 debts, not including our mortgage. This is normal. This is why I have to work.  We don't want to be NORMAL anymore!